Cosmic Love by Jan Spiller

Author:Jan Spiller [Spiller, Jan]
Language: eng
Format: epub
ISBN: 9780553904505
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Published: 2007-12-26T05:00:00+00:00

How Others Can Help Them Heal

Encourage Them to Be Honest and Direct

Sagittarius North Node people often need prompting in order to give others forthright feedback, since they tend to withhold their authentic thoughts and feelings. Help them to see that others deserve an honest reflection so that they can learn and grow and have the option of changing their behavior. Point out that when they don’t share their Truth, it sabotages their relationships because the other person won’t know how to give the native what they want and need. To allow solutions to arise naturally in a situation, encourage them to reveal their OWN inner truths—in spite of their fear of how terrible the repercussions may be. Avoiding the truth will not work for them in this lifetime.

If their behavior becomes distant, erratic, or unpredictable, get them to tell you what’s on their mind. It may be a specific fear: “You don’t find me attractive.” Or they may be withholding information: “I don’t want to stay in this relationship.” By addressing THEIR inner secrets and thoughts and then truthfully sharing your own concerns, you can create an honest exchange of information, which usually brings about its own natural resolution.

Urge Them to Follow Their Conscience

In past incarnations Sagittarius North Node people could depend on their adroit minds to navigate their relationships. But in this lifetime, past techniques don’t work. When they follow the path of logic and go against their conscience and their intuitive knowing of which is the “high road,” they lose. They are learning to follow the promptings of their conscience, regardless of their fears of what the repercussions might be.

Encourage them to take the leap of faith required to follow the path of right action. It may go against logic, yet every time they take the risk and act in alignment with their conscience, the outcome is remarkably positive. Point out that they are developing inner strength and a moral compass by trusting in the goodness of a Higher Power to guide their way.

One of the ways these people sabotage their relationships is by not always keeping their word. Don’t let them get away with this. For instance, if they are on a business trip and have promised their partner they will call and check in every night, encourage them to do it even if they are tired or not feeling well.

Promote Prayer, Meditation, and Other Spiritual Pursuits

These people have such active minds, they are continually second-guessing themselves, which leads to increased anxiety. As a result, they cherish and seek peace of mind above all. Encourage them to develop interest in a defined spiritual path, as this will give them some guiding principles to apply in everyday circumstances. But whatever discipline they choose, the native needs to go beyond the “letter of the law” and tune in to their intuition to see how to apply spiritual principles and truths to their daily situations.

Encourage them to begin a practice of regular prayer or meditation as a way of calling on a positive Higher Power—beyond the mind—for support and serenity.

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